Is it easy to find a Russian wife?

Is it easy to find a Russian wife?

Perhaps most men who were lucky in their search for a loved one or who are just thinking of finding a Russian wife would answer, �Of course it is easy, what�s so difficult about it? There are hundreds of thousands of Russian women on various dating sites � just choose the one you like!�

But it only seems easy. We must realize that the percentage of truly good, family oriented girls isn�t that high. Some men I meet at work believe that about 90% of women are scammers. I think that even if they are exaggerating  the number a bit, they are not too far from truth. Men often complain that women post photos that were taken 10 years ago, and when they finally meet, women look 10years older and 20 pounds heavier. Who is to blame here? You should have met your potential date in Skype first, or maybe asked her to send you a recent picture with the date on it.

It is much worse when a woman looks even better that on her photo, and it seems that your mutual happiness is just a step away, but in reality this beautiful woman is already married and meeting you is just her side job. There are many possible scenarios. For example, she can play sick and ask you for the money to buy expensive medicine to help her get better faster so that she can be with you. After you give her the money, you�ll probably never see her again. Or, this woman can go on regular dates with you, and at some point she will tell you a sad story of her sick mother or grandmother who needs a sitter that the family cannot afford. You�ll probably offer her financial help after that. After all, you haven�t come all the way to Russia to spend your time alone in your hotel room. It is not going to be fun to stay here without your date. Most people speak only Russian, so even going to a restroom will be a problem because no one will understand you ))

In another scenario, a girl can ask you to pay for her foreign language courses. She needs them because she met you and fell in love with you at the first sight. However, when you are already back to your country, she will write you a letter saying that she thought things over and decided that you aren�t really her type, or maybe she changed her mind and doesn�t want to marry a foreign man after all.

�What should I do then?� you�ll probably ask. Don�t be shy. Ask her for her phone number. Meet in Skype using an online translator if she doesn�t speak English. Ask her to send you a scanned page of her passport where marriage information is located. Give her a link to this article )) However, these are simple preventive measures, and of course they don�t guarantee anything. You cannot read your date�s thoughts.

What else can be done? Well, a really good dating agency would do. In men�s opinion, 90% of all dating agencies are scammers working together with the women. Pay attention to details, use your intuition, learn from others� mistakes, and read forum posts written by real users. Do not read reviews � we all know who writes them. Take your search for a wife seriously and minimize the risk of getting into an unpleasant situation.

It is best to use �Individual search� option if an agency offers it. But first learn what exactly you�ll get for the money you pay. Some agencies ask 10000 dollars for the individual search, and all you get are detailed questionnaires of women with several pages of their biography, which won�t tell you who they really are anyway.

In my next article read about the reason why I think the individual search is the best solution.

Where can we find love?

We live in the era of the Internet.!

When we need something, we connect and search for the information on the Web. We also use various dating sites to find love, and many men and women have found each other this way. But not everyone is fond of this method of looking for a partner. Many people are afraid of lies, of being cheated and used by scammers and frauds. Can we blame them for being distrustful and wary? Not really, because the Internet is full of the above mentioned liars, scammers, and cheats. However, there are plenty of unreliable liars and cheaters in real day-to-day life.

Let�s have a look at your regular weekday. You wake up in the morning. You get ready for work, and then walk to a bus or to a train station. You see people passing by, waiting for a bus next to you. You communicate with people at work. When you go home in the afternoon, you are also surrounded by people at the bus stop, in the supermarket, on the street� If we take into consideration all the people you come in contact with throughout your regular day, what do you think is the percentage of the good, trustworthy folks vs. cheaters and scammers? Just for the purposes of this discussion, let�s call them �good� and �bad�. You�d be surprised to find out that the percentages of the �good� and the �bad� people in real life are the same as in the Internet!

Yes, there are many more scammers in the Net. But there are many more good people as well simply because you can meet more people in the Internet than in real life. Your chances to find a soul mate are much higher than in real life because there are so many lonely hearts looking for love online.

We can compare it to a lottery. In lottery TV shows it seems that the winners are mostly people from big cities. Is it because they are luckier than people from small towns or the countryside? No, it�s just that there are more people living in the big city, and they buy more lottery tickets. As they purchase more tickets, there are more chances that they will come across the winning ones. The same thing happens with people who meet each other in the Internet.

Sometimes it happens that people spend weeks, months, even years looking for partners on various dating sites, but with no luck. Eventually they become desperate and conclude that it is impossible to find your true love in the Internet. But one should never give up! You should continue searching. Don�t give up what you have started. It is difficult to do, but the truth is that only a few people are lucky enough to find their soul mates right away, in the first several days or weeks. Many people need to walk a long way before they can find a loving partner and get married.

If they were able to do it, you can do it too! Not everyone is lucky from the very beginning, but consistency and persistence eventually pay off. The most important thing is to believe. Our dreams do come true. Don�t give up, and your love will find you!

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